Kai Wu
Sex and Relationship Coaching

Contact: 
somatikai415 (at) gmail.com
(628) 400-2588
www.lovebodysoul.com

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Welcome. My name is Kai and I'm delighted that you're here.

No matter how long it's been or how improbable it seems or how stuck you feel, progress and transformation are possible. Using a holistic, body-based and experiential approach, I can help you learn the skills you need so you can finally have the connections you truly want. 

​If you are ready for a change (or simply curious), I invite you to follow whatever spark of inspiration brought you here by scheduling a complimentary 20-minute consultation with me now.
 
Let's get started!
 
In pleasure, freedom and bliss,

-kai

Kai's Approach to Healing

My mission is support people of all kinds so they can be happy in their bodies and in their relationships. I welcome people of all identities, cultures, gender expressions, orientations, ages, abilities and bodies and help clients access the divine love, pleasure and wisdom within. This work is my great love and my form of activism. 
 
My approach is holistic, interactive and experiential. I have many influences including mindfulness, Tantra, sacred sexuality, breathwork, and a wide variety of healing modalities, especially somatic (body-based) ones.

I love helping people find their own voice, strength and desires, independent of cultural, societal and familial messages. From this version of ourselves, we can be confident in who we are, be who we really want to be and have the satisfying sex and relationships we really want. We can also have the greatest impact-- not only on our own lives, but on our communities and the world at large.
 
I speak Mandarin, Cantonese and have native fluency in Spanish. I'm proud to offer culturally-aware support. One of my specialties is working with those who come from what are considered "traditional" cultures, religions and/or backgrounds.

I have been trained in the Somatica Method of sex therapy and relationship coaching. I've completed studies at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and the year-long SkyDancing Tantra Professional Teacher Training. I am part of the teaching faculty at the Institute of Ectstatic Living and am honored to be one of the co-founding members of the Embodiment Arts Collective. 

​Here are just some of the things I can help you with:

• Transform and release physical and emotional blocks such as low-libido, pain during sex, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, performance anxiety, fear, pain, shame and trauma.
• Clearly identify your needs and desires and decipher your personal relationship style so you can effectively ask for (and receive) what you truly want.
• Practice and master intimacy skills in a loving, safe, non-judgmental environment and receive real-time guidance, support and feedback so you can have the love and the relationships you want in your life.
• Receive accurate, comprehensive and practical relationship and adult sex education that is holistic and experiential based on up-to-date research on neuroscience and how people learn.
• Deepen the emotional, physical and spiritual connection with your partner and yourself so you can enjoy greater levels of intimacy and passion.
• Put the pleasure back into sex as you are trying to conceive. Ensure that your body, mind and spirit are on the same page as you start your new family. Recover sexual functioning and pleasure after childbirth or surgery. Reconnect with your partner after the arrival of baby.
• Learn about Tantra, Taoist practices, and other forms of sacred sexuality and explore ways to connect your body and/or your relationship(s) to your spirit.
• Experience your sexual energy as a source of regenerative and creative life-force energy and explore your erotic self as a gateway for healing, evolution and transformation in all areas of your life.​

 

Have questions? Schedule your complimentary 20-min consultation now. ​

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